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May Allaah forgive those of us who have done this before, those who are in it and those who yet to...aammeen.
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We normally play carelessness on these mistakes
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*A a practicing pious man and a woman who spoke to each other about marriage and want to marry*

They start thinking like they're married. _Making marriage cheap_

Like the way unprofessional teachers made the job teaching very cheap.....

They start these wrong mistakes and think it is *NORMAL*

Some will not pay heed till they meet their Lord one-on-one and that will be too late ?

*Mistake number one (1)*

They call one another on phone and talk about how they will produce children and the processes.

*Number (2)*
They talk on phone and the lady speaks in soft melodious voice (Qur'an 33:32)
Death is in ambush.

*Number (3)*
They talk about how they will want sex to be, the styles numbers, days, periods, menstruation, orgasm, sperms, rounds and oral sex. ? are you people mindful?
In short, they synthesize and analyze sex.

The question they normally ask me is; "So if you don't talk about these, how will you know the man and perform your duties?" ?

No wonder .... even modern 'sohabas' want to test/taste the other's sexual plowers before marriage. ?

No need for these senseless mentalities

It is sinful to discuss matters of this nature on phone.

Moreover, the phone conversion on it own is something disliking In Islam between these category of people.
As it's synanimose to *seclusion*

*Number (4)*
The man invites the woman to his room whether he do it or not, it is sinful.
You can't have conversion with eyes close you'll look at her and she will and *The functions of man's eyes is different from woman's own.*
Take NoTe

*Number (5)*
The Lady send her photos to the guy and the vice versa sometimes partially dressed photos (nude like)
This is dislike stop it before you meet Him.

*Number (6)*
They walk together in public causing suspicions (it is because of this suspicion we do wedding outdoor even after the marriage contract has been permanently tied in the mosque. *(one hadith says we should not allow ourselves to be suspected)*

*Number (7)*
The girl washes and cooks for the man and the man buys gifts for her for sign of the love between them.
This is sinful
Allah says in the Qur'an _(if you want to enjoy them, then pay their bride price)_

*Number (8)*
They hug and shake hands with each other and even each other's opposite sex relatives.
Will you not stop these before death reaches you in ambush?

*Number (9)*
The girl dresses attractive for the guy and he praises her for her indecent dressing before him.
Ignorant ingrate ?

*Number (10)*
They watch pornographic movie before, during and after sex for devilish excitements after marriage.

These are the mistakes some practicing pious Muslims and Muslimas go through before marriage.

As for the *CAREFREE* Muslims and Muslimas,

Their dressings alone cause a fitnah *(DIRTY SINFUL SIN)* higher than fornication and Masturbation and employ many people into fitna (sins)

The reminder has come to you this morning,

It is now up to you to decide whether to take it or .....

As Allaah said in His perfect book;

Al-Baqarah 2:256

لَآ إِكْرَاهَ فِى ٱلدِّينِۖ قَد تَّبَيَّنَ ٱلرُّشْدُ مِنَ ٱلْغَىِّۚ فَمَن يَكْفُرْ بِٱلطَّٰغُوتِ وَيُؤْمِنۢ بِٱللَّهِ فَقَدِ ٱسْتَمْسَكَ بِٱلْعُرْوَةِ ٱلْوُثْقَىٰ لَا ٱنفِصَامَ لَهَاۗ وَٱللَّهُ سَمِيعٌ عَلِيمٌ modern evening dresses

There shall be no compulsion in [acceptance of] the religion. *The right course has become clear from the wrong.* So whoever disbelieves in Taghut and believes in Allah has grasped the most trustworthy handhold with no break in it. And Allah is Hearing and Knowing.
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